Mary and Joseph

I've been just sitting here for about an hour, eating some oatmeal, drinking some coffee, reading emails and Facebook posts, and thinking about the meaning of this upcoming night, of the gifts of time with family as well as the gifts that are to be given and received.  I get to look out windows at the birds at the feeders, filling their bellies with seeds, finding room at the feeder to share their space with one another, taking turns knocking seed to the ground for the ground feeding birds and other critters to gobble up.  The house is decorated with Nativity scenes, Santas and Angels, all ready to bring the Good News of Jesus’ birth.  It’s been quiet as I contemplate these things.  Something I've needed, time to just “be” in this season of seasons.

We haven’t gotten a Christmas letter written for a couple of years.  We’ll be waiting until sometime in Epiphany to get this year’s done.  Sometimes it is just better to wait on that project, to get the other things done and to really take time to evaluate all the gifts and joys of the previous months, and mention goals and dreams for the future.  We have many things to think about; many experiences lived, dreams being fulfilled just as new ones are being formed.  We are learning to live in the ‘now’ and to be thankful, even in our busy-ness, for moments of reflection, of time spent together simply laughing over some silly thing. 

When Joseph and Mary left Galilee for Bethlehem they were on a mission to register themselves with the government.  Unknown obstacles would meet them, the road would not be easy, and travel would be arduous and uncomfortable for the very pregnant Mary.  They could look forward to the birth of this child, but even that was filled with unknowns, dreams to be fulfilled, and fears and longings that surround the birth of any child, let alone the child of God.  It is easy to look at the beautiful art of Mary and Joseph with their newborn child in the stable.  We don’t often think of the mess of birth, the smell of animals, the grime embedded in the skin of the shepherds.  We think of this birth of our Savior with joy and Alleluias, grateful for the gift.  But can you imagine the fear in the hearts of Joseph and Mary?  Are those any different than our own? 

Counting the gifts under the tree, sharing the things we have with those we love, are ways in which we celebrate the One gift of this night.  No gift is without some sacrifice, some risk.  Perhaps that is why we give.  Mary and Joseph risked everything for the sake of the world.  They sacrificed so much to be the bearers of this gift.


O God of all creation, you gave us your Son, to be born and raised by a common woman and man, people with emotions and lives filled with busy-ness and responsibilities.  Thank you for Mary and for Joseph and for your trust in them to be for us the parents of our Jesus.  In our rush to be everywhere we need to be this Holy season, help us remember the roads they traveled to Bethlehem to give all they gave.  Amen.