Sermon 8/16/2015: True Love

This sermon is based on the Gospel According to John 6:51-58.  It was offered at St. Anne's Episcopal Church in Sunfish Lake, Minnesota.

For a couple of weeks I’ve wanted, no NEEDED to watch a favorite movie:  The Princess Bride.  It’s a cult classic movie of adventure and magic…and true love.  Have you seen it?  It’s the familiar boy meets girl, boy loses girl, boy gets girl theme, but set in medieval times with sword fights, a masked hero, a kidnapping, a torture chamber and an entitled prince.
The “farm boy” Wesley and the beautiful farmer’s daughter, Buttercup are in love. But Wesley leaves the farm to travel in a ship, vowing to love Buttercup and asking her to wait for him, which, she promises to do.  When Buttercup receives word that Wesley has died at sea, she goes into eternal mourning, vowing to never love again.  Enter in the entitled prince who can choose whatever maiden he wishes to marry and his choice is predictably Buttercup.   Boy meets girl and loses girl within the first ten minutes of the film…
I love this film because it is filled with quirky characters who go on a ridiculous journey. The script is filled with redundancy, the scope of the story filled with unbelievable creatures like R-O-U-S—rodents of unusual size—and the appropriately named Pit of Despair.  People appear to die, but don’t, there are battle scenes and dreams, hunchbacks, magicians and magic pills.  The Prince has an evil henchman with a sordid past, the prince lies and cheats and always looks handsome and charming.  And there is undying love, love worth any sacrifice, love that will overcome all obstacles including death.  And there is a classic question, “What do you need to live for?”  And an even more predictable response?  “True love.”
What is true love?
Is it like the tree in the book The Giving Tree?  The tree that loves the boy so much that is willing to give up its apples, its branches, and then its trunk to provide what the boy-turned-man wants and thinks he needs?  Is it in ultimately giving its stump so the old man can rest?   Is the love the tree has for the boy proven by its many sacrifices?
Is true love found in the life of seminarian Jonathan Myrick Daniels, one of this week’s saints found in the book Holy Women, Holy Men?  John, a white man, left seminary to be a part of the march on Selma.  He lived in the homes of black families, easily earning the trust of the adults, but sometimes finding the children harder to persuade.  But when the kids were with him, and cameras were taken out, those kids beamed with love and affection for this Northern seminarian who felt called by God to be in the midst of the protests.  This was the man who sacrificed his life protecting young Ruby Sales by stepping in front of the gun pointed at her while going into a store to buy a cold drink during the Civil Rights Movement 50 years ago.  Is this true love?
Is it captured in silly love songs?  Poetry?  Terms of endearment?
Yes, but true love is more than all of this. 
We learn about true love in the series of Gospel readings we have been reading for the past few weeks.
What?  I bet you thought we’ve been reading a lot about bread, right?  Well, yes…and no. 
  • ·        We’ve been learning about the depth of what a staple like bread can mean to people from all cultures and that Jesus is the bread of life, so we can deduce that Jesus is the standard, the staple, the foundation of our Christian life. 
  • ·        We are reminded that the Gospel according to John was written about 70 years after Jesus was crucified and it was written for Jesus followers, not for Jews.  It was written with the intent to secure their faith in Jesus.  This is expressed in John 20:31:  But these are written so that you may come to believe that Jesus is the Messiah, the Son of God, and that through believing you may have life in his name.[1] 
  • ·        We’ve learned that the Jews have a different understanding of their relationship with God, but it isn’t any more or less credible or relevant than those of Jesus followers.  They understand that dead means dead.  We believe that Jesus is the bread of life, the son of God, the foundation of our faith, so we understand that dead is only the beginning of eternal life with God.
  • ·        We’ve learned that God chooses people to come to Jesus; that through our relationship with Jesus, we have an eternal relationship with God. 
  • ·        We’ve learned that to be in relationship with Jesus we must share in the communion; share in the eating of the bread of life and drinking of the cup of salvation as outward signs of our inward devotion and love of God.


And then we come to today’s reading.  Let me tell you that this has been a hard series of verses to consider.  Thankfully, I know not to read the words literally.  And even more thankfully, the translation we are using today is much more pleasant than the original, where the language is more graphic, like munching and crunching and swallowing the flesh and blood of Christ.  Reading these words out of context certainly would raise eyebrows and turn the stomachs of people who are not Jesus followers.  Let’s just make this clear:  Jesus is not promoting cannibalism. 
In the Episcopal Church we believe, as stated in the 28th Article of Faith found on page 873 of the Book of Common Prayer, that we do not believe in transubstantiation, which is defined as the change of the substance of bread and wine into Christ’s body; rather we believe it is a holy meal where we receive Christ in Faith.  Another way to look at this?  Worship Christ.  Not the sacraments.   It is through the sharing of the meal that we are bonded as followers of Jesus.  This is what sets us apart in our faith.
I like to think of it this way:  by receiving Eucharist we affirm our relationship with God through Jesus. We receive the sacrifice as a symbol of Jesus love for us.  And yet, there is more to it than this.  We celebrate the Eucharist in community.  We celebrate our community of faith as seekers of God, or as worshippers of God, no matter where we are on our individual faith journey.  We do this together, not alone.
I read a blog by a former Evangelical preacher named Jonathan Martin who so succinctly wrote about what weekly Eucharist in the Episcopal Church means to him that I want to share it verbatim.  He wrote:
 Whatever respective traditions we do find ourselves in and however we get there, I become only more convinced that the practice of coming to the Table together in the Eucharist is the only hope we have for any sort of unity, cohesion, and renewal in the Church as a whole.
In other words, we build relationships with our friends, our enemies, our neighbors, our families at the Table. By doing something we have in common, the need to eat and drink, we open ourselves up to the opportunity to develop relationships with one another and with God.  At the Eucharist, we re-connect with our God, we re-establish our relationship with Jesus, we re-new our-selves through this act of true love, of ultimate sacrifice, of communion with one another.
Jonathan Martin goes on to say,
But the practice of the liturgy from The Book of Common Prayer in general, and the shared experience of the Eucharist in particular, is what holds us together. Beyond that, there is plenty of room for difference. The emphasis is not on sharing dogma so much as it is sharing the cup.”[2] 
Martin tells us to put aside how you believe this is the body and blood of Jesus Christ, and go and share this meal with someone, engage in your differences and embrace what you share.  Love one another through the experience of the meal.
So when Jesus tells us in this Gospel that we must eat of his flesh and drink of his blood, what he is expressing is that he loves us so much he is willing to give himself to us, like Wesley to Buttercup, like the tree to the boy, like Jonathan the seminarian to the Civil Rights Movement.
No, the words “I love you” are not specifically spoken here, but the implication that we eat of the flesh and drink of the blood of Jesus is an invitation into deeper relationship with Jesus and ultimately, with God.
True love. 
The giving of oneself to another: emotionally, physically, and spiritually.  It is the act of joining together, of mutually sacrificing part of oneself to the benefit of the other.  It is not about losing oneself, or becoming slave to another.  It is about a mutual giving and receiving, a rhythm where heartbeats provide the foundation for the notes playing above. It's the every-day that shows us how to love. It's the mundane, methodical and magical; the little things that make us stop and show another that we care. It's doing things together when the world seems to make us separate and automate. It's a touch, a tear-wipe, a prayer. Its knowing what is needed when or helping the other know what is needed.
It is the bread for the journey; the foundation that fills us when we hunger.  It is Jesus.
When we take and eat and drink of the holy food of the most precious body and blood of our Lord Jesus Christ, we affirm our loving relationship with Jesus and with God. 
When we share the bread and the wine we affirm our place in community with other Christians, bonding us in the love of Jesus and, therefore, God.
We do these things in community.  We do them to identify our place in that community.  We do them because they are expressions of true love.

Let us pray.  Dear Jesus, accept our love for you as it is today.  Hold us in your loving arms and strengthen us to receive the gift of your sacrifice: your body and your blood.  Help us to understand that through sharing in this holy meal we are binding ourselves to you and to one another through faith.  To you, we pray.  Amen.